It is best if you’re slim. You won’t be made fun of though because if your body type is not one that a manager would think is suitable for topless entertainment, he/she may suggest waitressing.

I like Buckcherry and Papa Roach. They both have really good songs that are upbeat and can be sexy. The music format at most of the clubs I dance at is primarily rock, which most girls who know what they’re doing prefer. It keeps the mood in the club going and you can move sensually to just about any rock song, as opposed to rap or country.

I know this answer will piss off a lot of strippers, but here goes:

First, I hope you’re not paying up front for dances. While I encourage a “pay as you go” plan, I never encourage a “pay up front” plan. There are those few girls who will excuse themselves to “powder their nose” with your money and never return to complete their dances. If a girl asks for her money up front, then decline. If that’s uncomfortable for you, just tell her that you decided not to buy dances after and she’ll excuse herself rather quickly anyway leaving you free to scout out a girl more your style.

After all, part of what you’re paying for is a fantasy and seduction. You want to feel good and be turned on. If you’re getting a dance from someone smacking gum and staring at herself in the mirror above your head, you’re not getting what you’re paying for. In fact, I wish there were more customers who would speak up. As an occasional patron in strip clubs, I’ve bought dances for friends and have wanted to strangle the girl giving the dance. It’s all I can do to not stop them mid-song and go, “Look, bitch, I’m paying you good money for 5 minutes of seduction. You can’t even answer fucking phones for that much so could you please smile and look like he’s the hottest guy you’ve ever danced for and you want to rip his clothes off?” 

Short answer: Find a girl who looks happy and looks like she LOVES her job.

I usually get an impression before I ever have to ask if you want a dance whether or not you’ll buy one. I just politely excuse myself once I’ve gotten that vibe. If I’m wrong, I’m asked to stay, but I’m not usually wrong. If I do ask and you decline, I still, politely, thank you anyway and tell you to have fun and move on to someone who does.

I don’t diffrentiate. Money is money and if you’re there to buy dances, I’m the girl who will give them to ya!

As I’ve said before, there is no daily average. At any club. Any dancer worth her experience knows this. The money you make is directly related to 3 things: the number of customers through the door, how much money they’re spending and how many of those customers you talk to.

I do remember when I first started dancing! And I’m so flattered that you remember me! You made my day! Thanks!

I have known girls to do this, and I think it’s pretty sad. Some girls, especially younger, less experienced dancers, believe that once you’ve paid for some dances that you’re done and they want to move on to the next customer. Unfortunately, they don’t realize that you may not be done buying dances, or even if you are, that they should stay a few minutes more to cultivate that relationship that brings a customer back, thus making him a “regular”. Not only is it annoying to the customer, it’s just plain rude and makes us all look bad. (Gee, wonder where the stereotypes come from?) I never leave a customer before making sure he wants no more dances, has a full drink if he wants one and is otherwise satisfied (not THAT way, pervs)! By being kind, I know I’ll be remembered and visited again. I’m sorry that happened to you, but at least next time you’re there you can politely decline her company!

I assume you mean HAVE private jobs outside of the club? Well, I’ve never taken a poll, so I can’t give percentages. In my experiences with the girls I’ve talked to, many do have day jobs, and some would shock you. I’ve worked with a nurse, a forensic psychologist, a teacher and several other weird jobs. Girls you’d never guess put on a suit/scrubs by day and clear heels at night!

First, I’d like to point out that it is not the habit of strippers to leave a club with a customer. In fact, it is against the policy of the clubs I’ve worked at for girls to leave with a customer. Now, on to your questions: I have had customers bring me gifts, but I’ve never met one out to shop. I’ve gotten things like panties and perfume, but nothing over the top like a car. (I have heard of it though!) As for how much a guy can touch during a dance, it’s always been my policy not to allow touching at all.